One thing is for sure...Women looking for one night stands, are not looking for love. Yes, it may feel like love, but one night stands are really all about fun. Nothing complicated, nothing serious, no strings attached.
On a deeper level, women looking for one night stands may actually be dealing with some repressed feelings. It isn't cut and dry, because every women is different and there may be nothing to dig deeper for. In fact, that's the best way to enjoy a date with someone who is purely into the physical.
If you're looking for love or a long-term relationship in a one night stand, be prepared to suffer some emotional pain when it all comes to an end. Don't forget, these relationships are well named for a reason. They really are for only one night!
You have to be a non-committed person to avail yourself of women looking for one night stands because this is exactly what they are looking for. These are fun ladies who are either either single, in an "open marriage" or not dealing well with a problem marriage. Don't bother analyzing the affair. It's just for fun and that is all you should expect.
Then again, sometimes it happens that 2 people just click really well and want to continue seeing each other. Tread carefully. This could be disappointment waiting to happen if feelings become captive to a fantasy relationship. This is what usually develops in this type of scenario. The fantasy gets too good to give up but has nowhere to go because one or both partners cannot commit.
Things are not up or down and eventually someone starts to hurt and there goes the fantasy. But this is a very gray issue. There could be many reasons women engage in this type of behavior, including revenge, anger, frustration or the feeling of being unloved or unappreciated.
But who hasn't felt these emotions before? Whatever the issues, it seems clear that there is some soul searching going on and a need for attention. These are very complicated issues and have more questions than answers. Whoever you decide to date whether online or off, never think you know what is going on behind closed doors. Life is complex with emotions that are mysterious and reasoning that can be very complex. Each of us is seeking out their purpose in life and asking many questions that will never be answered...
Sometimes it is best to think less and just enjoy life's precious gifts.
If dating online brings you to a woman or women looking for one night stands - accept it for what it is and just go with the flow. Just remember to practice safe sex!
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